Plain answers to the questions people are often afraid to ask.
Plain-language answers to questions people ask after trauma, relationship harm, and frightening experiences — published by Starrett Wellness Group as general education, not diagnosis.
Understanding Trauma
Why Do I Still Feel Unsafe Even Though the Traumatic Experience Is Over?
After trauma, the body can stay on alert even when the event is over. Learn why this happens, how it differs from ordinary stress, and when support may help.
Understanding TraumaHow Do I Know Whether What I Experienced Was Trauma?
Trauma is more than a dramatic event. Learn how clinicians think about harmful experiences, lasting effects, and why comparison is a poor guide.
Understanding TraumaWhat Is the Difference Between Trauma and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder?
Trauma is an overwhelming experience. PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder) is a specific diagnosis only some develop. Learn how clinicians tell them apart.
Understanding TraumaWhy Do Certain Sounds, Places, People, or Situations Trigger Me?
Sounds, places, people, and situations can all trigger a trauma response. Learn why triggers form and how to work with them without shrinking your life.
Relationship and Domestic Violence Recovery
The Power and Control Wheel
A widely used tool that maps the behaviors often used to gain and keep control in a relationship.
The Equality Wheel
The counterpart to the Power and Control Wheel: what a respectful, nonviolent relationship looks like.
The Teen Power and Control Wheel
How control can show up in teen dating relationships, including peer pressure, rumors, and social status.
Relationship and Domestic Violence RecoveryWhy Is It So Hard to Trust People After an Abusive Relationship?
After abuse, trust in others and in your own judgment can both feel broken. Learn why that happens, what rebuilding involves, and where to find support in Florida.
Relationship and Domestic Violence RecoveryWhat Does Emotional Abuse Actually Look Like?
Emotional abuse is a pattern of control, isolation, and undermining — not a single bad argument. Learn recognized forms and where to get support in Florida.
Children, Teens, and Families
How Do I Know Whether My Teenager Is Struggling With Trauma or Normal Teenage Stress?
Teen moodiness is common. Trauma-related distress is different in duration, intensity, and impact. Learn what to watch for — without rushing to a label.
Children, Teens, and FamiliesWhat Are Signs That a Child May Be Struggling After a Frightening Experience?
After a scare, children often show distress through behavior, sleep, and play. Learn common signs — and why a single change is not a diagnosis.
Coming soon
New articles in progress, each written and clinically reviewed by Dr. Darlene Starrett.
- Why Can It Still Be Trauma When There Wasn’t One Big Event?
- Why Don’t I Trust My Own Memory Anymore?
- Why Do I Feel Numb or Far Away Instead of Upset?
- What Do Flashbacks and Intrusive Memories Actually Feel Like?
- Why Do Nights, Sleep, and Nightmares Get Harder After Trauma?
- Why Do Shame and Self-Blame Stick After Something Frightening?
- Why Does Anger Show Up Bigger Than the Moment?
- Why Can Trauma Show Up as Headaches, Stomachaches, or a Body That Won’t Settle?
- What Can Grief Look Like After Someone Dies?
- Why Can I Miss Someone Who Hurt Me?
- What Is the Difference Between Domestic Abuse and Intimate Partner Violence?
- How Can I Safely Leave a Toxic Relationship?
- Why Is Individual Therapy, Not Couples Counseling, Usually the Starting Point After Abuse?
- Who Am I If I’m Not the One Holding Everything Together?
- How Can I Tell When My Child Is Grieving, Not Acting Out?
- What Can a Child’s Therapy Session Look Like When They Don’t Want to Talk?
- How Are Children Affected When Home Feels Controlled or Scary?
- What Does It Mean to Parent While You Are Still Carrying Trauma?
- What Can Harm in a Teen Relationship Look Like Before Anyone Calls It Abuse?
- How Can Recovery Start After Teen Exploitation or Trafficking?
- What Should Teens and Parents Know About Privacy Before the First Session?
- What Are Parents Part Of in a Child’s First Sessions?
- What Is Group Therapy for Trauma Like?
- Can Telehealth Therapy Help With Trauma?
- What Happens in a First Trauma Therapy Session?
- What Approaches Does Trauma Therapy Use?
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