Controlling behavior can start early. The Teen Power and Control Wheel, produced by the National Center on Domestic and Sexual Violence and developed from the Duluth model, shows how control can appear in teen dating relationships, including through peer pressure, rumors, and social status.

It can help teens, and the adults who care about them, put words to what is happening. Select the wheel to view it full size.

The Teen Power and Control Wheel

How control can show up in teen dating relationships.

The Teen Power and Control Wheel. Physical and sexual violence form the outer rim. Inside are eight sections showing tactics used in teen dating relationships: peer pressure; anger and emotional abuse; isolation and exclusion; sexual coercion; threats; minimizing, denying, and blaming; intimidation; and using social status.

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Teen Power and Control Wheel, adapted from the Power and Control Wheel developed by Domestic Abuse Intervention Programs, Duluth, MN. Produced and distributed by the National Center on Domestic and Sexual Violence, Austin, Texas.

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If you are in immediate danger, call 911.

National Domestic Violence Hotline, available 24/7: 1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788.

For teens: love is respect, 24/7: 1-866-331-9474, or text LOVEIS to 22522.

Florida Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-500-1119.

Pinellas County: CASA (Community Action Stops Abuse), 24-hour hotline: 727-895-4912.

Pasco County: Sunrise of Pasco County, 24-hour hotline: 352-521-3120.

If someone may be monitoring your devices, consider using a phone or computer they cannot access.

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This page is for general educational purposes and is not a diagnosis or a substitute for individualized mental-health care. The wheel is shown in its original form and remains the property of the National Center on Domestic and Sexual Violence.

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